I`m pissed off...

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I`m pissed off...

by sianpayne @ 2009-11-14 – 20:11:38

...with this place now....

Please can someone help me and tell me how to make my blog fool proof so i don`t have to do loads of private posts but can keep my blog just for my friends?

I can`t be doing with posting loads of private posts cos me prattling on about my life and kids and cats isn`t really worthy of a private post is it?

But there are certain folk who can piss right off and i don`t like them reading my blog - but i can`t stop them - or i don`t know how to - so what can i do....?

HELP!!!! STALKER ALERT YOU PILLOCK!!!!
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- deleted user (Visitor)
- 2009-11-14 @ 20:50:07
Hi Sian , you can't stop anyone reading anything you publicly publish .
I'm sorry that it seems that another user of this site has been and is harrassing you .
If you were a pro-member you'd have more comment options , including setting comments to 'Friends Only - Others Moderated' .
Or , without going pro you can set all comments to be moderated by you , for you to accept or reject , though , either way , you'll still have to see them first .
You can block another user from sending you private messages here by clicking on block user to the top right of any message from or to them ( if necessary , send them a blank message , then find it in your sent folder ) .
But anyone abusively pestering you here is violating the terms of their membership , so I suggest you save all nasty messages and comments and forward them to support@blog.co.uk , and , it may take 3 o4 4 days , but the bcuk team will take appropiate action .
I've experienced something similar here from a ----ing Scottish Priest , so I understand how one person can ruin your enjoyment of this site if you let them .
Good Luck , and feel free to message me if you need any further advice or support ,
Martin . -xx- .
- - sianpayne
  - 2009-11-15 @ 20:23:25
  Thank you Martin - that is really helpful and kind of you - i think i will have to moderate comments for the time being and see how things go.
  
  Could i p.m you please? I think you may well be just the guy i need to speak too!
  
  xxx
  - - deleted user (Visitor)
    - 2009-11-15 @ 21:55:57
    Of course ! , my email should be visible to blog friends on my profile page , or contact me via here - Whatever , whenever , I'll of course be glad to hear from you , and , I stumbled across a poem about marriage which you just might appreciate !
    Martin -xx- .
    - - sianpayne
      - 2009-11-16 @ 09:29:54
      Thanks for that Martin - i`ll be in touch soon
      xxx
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- kitten44 ^Pro
- 2009-11-14 @ 21:29:07
please don't let certain weirdos ruin this for you. Stay around and don't leave again, do what you can to protect yourself from them though.
huge hugs hun xxxxx
- - sianpayne
  - 2009-11-15 @ 20:25:01
  Thanks Kat - you`re a love - i`ve p.m`ed you but the bloody thing isn`t telling me whether it has sent or not!
  
  I`m going to moderate comments for the time being and hide my status and comments sent etc on my profile page
  
  Thanks so much lovely
  xxx
  - - kitten44 ^Pro
    - 2009-11-15 @ 20:40:50
    it came through, I'll reply in a sec hun xx
    Yeah I moderated for a while and now just moderate non-friend's comments and I think thats a sensible thing to hide your status etc, I do it every now and then for my own reasons xx
    - - sianpayne
      - 2009-11-16 @ 09:32:53
      I just sometimes get freaked out about who is reading all this and whether i could be identified - you know through my kittens etc?
      
      *Shivers*
      
      Though having said that they are messing with the wrong one here hun - cos folk think i`m a pussycat when really i`m a mentally deranged loony who thinks she`s a witch and i can cast spells and curses and everything!!!
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- blue2pink ^Pro
- 2009-11-14 @ 21:42:33
i love your blogs, cos its a chance for us to listen and care and yes worry about you too,easy to say but egnore(that looks wronge) the ones who dont care, and let us
come along side
xxxxx
- - sianpayne
  - 2009-11-16 @ 09:44:33
  Thanks E - you`re a love you know?
  xxx
  - - blue2pink ^Pro
    - 2009-11-16 @ 09:46:23
    no i am just me, i have seen too much hate, i just want to love my friends and be loved back
    xxx
    - - sianpayne
      - 2009-11-16 @ 09:47:35
      And i love you loads
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- adamantixx
- http://trifledreamz.blogspot.com
- 2009-11-14 @ 22:51:27
just keep on being you and sod anybody who doesn't like it!
private posts may be the only way to keep unwelcome eyes off your blog x
- - sianpayne
  - 2009-11-16 @ 09:45:28
  Cheers Seany
  xxx
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- brokendownangel ^Pro
- 2009-11-15 @ 08:45:05
I think the only way is to make them all moderated then you can choose what gets through x
- - sianpayne
  - 2009-11-16 @ 09:46:22
  Thanks Tracey - yes i`ve moderated them for the time being - battened down the hatches as it were
  
  You okay?
  
  xxx
  - - brokendownangel ^Pro
    - 2009-11-16 @ 10:39:46
    Good for you, yeah I am ok, just finishing off a few bits will be back this week x
    - - sianpayne
      - 2009-11-16 @ 11:22:09
      That`s good to hear - it`s been real quiet here of late...
      xxx
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- deleted user (Visitor)
- 2009-11-17 @ 10:44:42
moderating comments won't stop them reading your blog though. Only private posts can do that
- - sianpayne
  - 2009-11-17 @ 10:47:31
  That`s the trouble.....it will have to be private posts for private things i suppose....
  
  Thanks
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